“Daddy School”

Family Mentoring and a Daughter’s First App

M. H. Rubin
5 min readAug 23, 2022
Mutiny at Disneyworld, 2007 — our grumpy children at the happiest place on Earth.

I made a deal with my kids when they were six and eight. They didn’t want to go to Sunday School and I was getting pretty fed up with the weekly weekend argument. I wasn’t going to let them stay home and watch TV so I gave them an alternative: if they wanted to skip their formal religious education, I was willing to swap it with an equal number of hours of sitting with me, doing whatever assignments I wanted to give them, imparting the random bits of information I had that I felt my kids should know. With no complaining. Leelee, 6, called it “Daddy School” and both kids opted in.

From Quizzing to Modeling

To be candid, it wasn’t well-planned. I started with quasi-religious education, but most Daddy School Sundays were filled with word games and trivia. It was work to come up with curriculum so eventually it drifted into any random information that seemed good to impart. “What’s the capital of Latvia? Who was the architect of Falling Water? What does SCUBA stand for?” And as the kids got a little older, class included things like “What’s a mortgage?” “What’s the difference between color in light and paint” and I made them sit through explanations of my fossil collection and evolution. Class covered pretty much anything I happened to have learned that ended up being useful in my…

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M. H. Rubin

Living a creative life, a student of high magic, and hopefully growing wiser as I age. • Ex-Lucasfilm, Netflix, Adobe. • Here are some stories and photos.